Constance Phyllis Hoke, affectionately known as Connie, was a beacon of light and joy to all who knew her. Born on August 3, 1934, in Long Branch, New Jersey, to the late Rosario and Sarah (Maggio) Scheri, Connie’s life was a testament to her unwavering spirit and loving heart. She passed away peacefully on January 9, 2026, in the same town that she was born in, leaving behind a legacy of love and laughter.
Connie graduated from Long Branch High School in 1952, carrying with her the fond memories and friendships that would last a lifetime. Her career was a reflection of her dedication and service to others, as she worked diligently as an Administrative Assistant at the US Army Chaplain School and Patterson Army Health Clinic before retiring in 2005. Her professionalism and warmth made her a beloved figure among her colleagues and all those she assisted during her years of service.
Family was the cornerstone of Connie’s life. She was predeceased by her loving parents Rosario & Sarah Maggio) Scheri and her devoted husband, James R. Hoke, with whom she shared countless cherished moments. Her brother-in-law Joseph J “Buddy” Cieri, and Nephews Kevin and Brian Cieri. Connie’s love and guidance live on through her sister, Phyllis V. (Scheri) Cieri; her son, Vern E. Hoke; her daughter, Lynn E. (Hoke) Dolly, and son-in-law, Kevin M. Dolly. Her grandchildren, Daniel P. Hoke, Erin C. Dolly, Angelena J. Hoke, and Shannon C. Dolly, her nephew Joseph J Cieri Jr., as well as several great grand babies, both human and furry, will forever hold onto the precious memories and life lessons imparted by their beloved matriarch.
Connie’s love for music was a joyous and ever-present part of her life. She could often be found singing along to her favorite tunes, her melodious voice filling the rooms of her home with warmth and happiness. Her musical interests were diverse, and her ability to recall the lyrics to countless songs was nothing short of remarkable.
Those who knew Connie will remember her for her infectious sense of humor and her loving nature. She had the exceptional gift of making people laugh and feel loved, often brightening the darkest of days with her quick wit and compassionate heart. Her presence was a comfort to many, and her ability to connect with people on a deep and meaningful level was one of her most treasured attributes.
Connie’s journey through life was marked by her resilience, her generosity of spirit, and her unwavering positivity. She faced life’s challenges with grace and emerged with an even greater capacity for love and joy. Her laughter, her stories, and her unconditional love will be deeply missed by all who were fortunate enough to know her.
As we say goodbye to Constance Phyllis Hoke, we celebrate the remarkable woman she was and the indelible impact she left on our hearts. Her legacy will continue to inspire and guide us, and her memory will be cherished forever. Rest in peace, dear Connie, knowing that your spirit lives on in the lives of those you touched.
A memorial gathering was held on Friday, January 16, 2026 from 10 am until the time of the service at 11 am at the Damiano Funeral Home in Long Branch. The burial of cremains followed at Woodbine Cemetery in Oceanport.
